How many men in this room have ever heard the words “You’re not dealing with your feelings”? Raise your hand. (many of the men raise their hands) Yeah, that’s most of us. And hopefully, in the next 20 minutes or so, as we talk, you’ll begin to have a different way of looking at that. I’ve spent about 25 years of my life working with traumatized men—men who were in deep trouble, and I’ve learned that men have a different way of handling their stress, loss, and emotions and it is often overlooked or misunderstood.